‘Humor is the politeness of despair’, an approximate, googlish translation of l’humour est la politesse du désespoir, a saying attributed to noted post-WWII Left Bank jazzman, writer, and engineer, Boris Vian, So, let’s start with the reverent, despairing humor of Chris Calloway in Wired Magazine’s memorial to Steve Jobs:
“Heaven got a major upgrade today…”
Yes, I can see Dear Leader in his new abode. Having climbed his last mountain, he summons Saint Peter and utters the words that he has heard throughout his life: “You’re doing it all wrong.”
“Look at the name above the door, the typeface sucks, the kerning is off. The furniture is out of style — get something cleaner, fresher. And the stairs… We need something airier…I don’t know, glass? Come to think of it, one of the founding partners of the architecture firm that designed the Apple Store moved in here a few months ago. Bernard Cywinski; look him up get to work.”
…and then it’s Saint Peter’s turn to mourn Steve’s untimely demise, and his own lost tranquility.
[Update: I just found this picture of the New Yorker’s upcoming October 17th cover. Obviously, this is before Steve starts to take matters into his own hands.]
Back in our Valley of Tears, this Onion article provides just the right amount of serious thought wrapped in knowing derision. I can’t resist but quote the entire piece, it’s too good and, in a way, it’s a consolation:
“Last American Who Knew What The Fuck He Was Doing Dies
Steve Jobs, the visionary co-founder of Apple Computers and the only American in the country who had any clue what the fuck he was doing, died Wednesday at the age of 56. “We haven’t just lost a great innovator, leader, and businessman, we’ve literally lost the only person in this country who actually had his shit together and knew what the hell was going on,” a statement from President Barack Obama read in part, adding that Jobs will be remembered both for the life-changing products he created and for the fact that he was able to sit down, think clearly, and execute his ideas—attributes he shared with no other U.S. citizen. “This is a dark time for our country, because the reality is none of the 300 million or so Americans who remain can actually get anything done or make things happen. Those days are over.” Obama added that if anyone could fill the void left by Jobs it would probably be himself, but said that at this point he honestly doesn’t have the slightest notion what he’s doing anymore.”
The real Barack Obama didn’t disappoint. Rising above the official, persphinctery encomiums, he offered a well-worded and, I believe, heartfelt homage [emphasis mine]:
“Michelle and I are saddened to learn of the passing of Steve Jobs.
Steve was among the greatest of American innovators – brave enough to think differently, bold enough to believe he could change the world, and talented enough to do it.
By building one of the planet’s most successful companies from his garage, he exemplified the spirit of American ingenuity.
By making computers personal and putting the internet in our pockets, he made the information revolution not only accessible, but intuitive and fun.
And by turning his talents to storytelling, he has brought joy to millions of children and grownups alike.
Steve was fond of saying that he lived every day like it was his last. Because he did, he transformed our lives, redefined entire industries, and achieved one of the rarest feats in human history: he changed the way each of us sees the world.
The world has lost a visionary. And there may be no greater tribute to Steve’s success than the fact that much of the world learned of his passing on a device he invented. Michelle and I send our thoughts and prayers to Steve’s wife Laurene, his family, and all those who loved him.”
Just the right words, neither too many nor too few.
Praise for Steve has been plentiful, personal, and often insightful. But we also have the dissenters. Some of them are merely laughable: One unhinged dissenter, a Baptist Church leader named Margie Phelps, promised to picket Steve’s funeral for “teaching his neighbors to sin.” Her call to arms was tweeted from an iPhone.
We have Free Software Foundation’s Richard Stallman in a sadly tasteless post:
“Steve Jobs, the pioneer of the computer as a jail made cool, designed to sever fools from their freedom, has died.
As Chicago Mayor Harold Washington said of the corrupt former Mayor Daley, “I’m not glad he’s dead, but I’m glad he’s gone.” Nobody deserves to have to die – not Jobs, not Mr. Bill, not even people guilty of bigger evils than theirs. But we all deserve the end of Jobs’ malign influence on people’s computing.
Unfortunately, that influence continues despite his absence. We can only hope his successors, as they attempt to carry on his legacy, will be less effective.”
You can read an excellent, balanced retort here.
Most irksome of all is Steve Jobs Wasn’t God, Hamilton Nolan’s heartless and crude opinion at Gawker.com. Commenters chimed in and piled on, disputing Jobs’ accomplishments, ascribing them to others, condemning him for lapses of judgment in his early adulthood. This earned Mr. Nolan, who claims to have never owned an Apple product, a stinging rebuke from the Macalope. It’s well worth reading, as are all his weekly posts.
I side with the Macalope, but let’s not forget that the objectors play a useful role in reminding us that we shouldn’t canonize Steve. He was a genius, with an ‘‘insane’’ drive that took him and his company to the pinnacle—and brought us with them–but he was no saint. The undeniable, manic drive admits a dark side. If you want the works of art, you’ve got to accept the real artist. As I wrote in my late August tribute (Steve: Who’s Going to Protect Us From Cheap and Mediocre Now?), Steve learned to ride the animal inside him and matured as a result.
So, indeed, Steve wasn’t God, but let’s give him his due. To those, such as Mr. Nolan, who belittle Steve’s achievements because he didn’t solve world hunger, invent a vaccine, or fight for civil rights, I’ll say this: Computers are one of mankind’s most important inventions, right behind the written word, symbolic language. Steve saw computers as an extension of mind and body. His unique contribution has been, time and again, to make computers more personal and more elegant, to make Apple stand at the intersection of technology and liberal arts.
That’s what I’ve always loved about Apple: I remember how happy I felt when I joined the company more than 30 years ago and found it had commissioned a Ray Bradbury poem for the (unfortunately short-lived) Apple magazine. I only remember the title, Ode to the Quick Computer; and the last verse, So cowards, what are you afraid of?
The dissenters are entitled to their views and they have a right to broadcast them. But to The Rest Of Us, their postures show a deep failure of empathy for the many ways in which Steve touched so many lives, in an ever-expanding number of ways. The drive for beauty and elegance, for enchantment even, is profound. It’s what makes us human, it’s what Apple came to represent, and that’s why so many of us mourn Steve’s demise.
As John Stewart lucidly explained, there’s another reason for the outpouring: We feel cheated. Ford and Edison died old, they had enough time to give society all they were meant to give. With Steve, we’re tragically robbed of what he could have accomplished with more time.
[Update: I just found this beautiful October 17th New Yorker article by Nicholson Baker where he writes:
“Everyone who cares about music and art and movies and heroic comebacks and rich rewards and being able to carry several kinds of infinity around in your shirt pocket is taken aback by this sudden huge vacuuming-out of a titanic presence from our lives.” ]
I bow to the happy family man he became, to the Grand Master of high tech, to the once disheveled hippie who became the Manager Extraordinaire of one of the world’s best-run companies and, last but not least, the Editor In Chief of a large group of engineers and artists.
I leave you with a nice tweet quoting Dr. Seuss…
…and a newly unearthed version of the famous Crazy Ones video, this one narrated by Steve himself, instead of Richard Dreyfuss. Call me feeble-minded, but it moves me to tears. Weeks ago, right after Steve resigned as CEO, Adweek created a version of the famous commercial in which a picture of Steve, as a young man, is added to the end, a fitting inclusion in the procession.
Lastly, a reminder of Steve’s mark on Apple, powerful because it’s so simply elegant, the creation of a young Hong Kong designer named Jonathan Mak:
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19 Comments
Well said JLG. I too, like you and many others, found myself surprised at how emotional Steve Jobs’ death has made me feel.
I think ultimately it is because he made us all see that it is possible to achieve great things and that one should always aspire to be great. Apple products always remind me of that human excellence and spirit.
And for all the naysayers and critics, I always laugh at those who think that Apple doesn’t innovate and that they just copy good ideas and market them better. For example, so many detractors these days have no idea what Xerox’s GUI looked like and that Apple improved hugely on the concept of the GUI and built on Xerox’s work and innovated while Microsoft simply lifted Apple’s work directly and can hardly claim to have improved on it. They read somewhere about Xerox originating the concept of the GUI and think that that was the same as what Apple built. Its laughable really if their ignorance wasn’t so offensive. Stallman simply deserves to go to a hell were there are no standards and no rules – a million monkeys pounding on computers who are free to do what they want. Hamilton Nolan disqualifies himself on credibly speaking about Jobs by saying “I’ve never owned an Apple product” Then why the hell should we listen to you Mr. Nolan? It’s like talking about Hawaii and having never been there. What a tool.
You are not feeble-minded, sir. I have been moved to tears several times since Wednesday last. I am sure we can count on the crew at Apple and our own Jobs-tuned aesthetic to protect us from the cheap and mediocre.
“Call me feeble-minded, but it moves me to tears.”
It’d be far more accurate to just call you, “human”.
I’d love to find that poem. Google only bounces me back to this post.
@ Eric Kang: Yes, I’ve tried too, with the same lack of success… I’m thinking of writing Tim Cook, asking him to pass the request on to the appropriate individual. This said, finding a copy of a 30yr-old Apple Magazine might not be a priority at Apple right now…
> Too soon
That is so true. It is heartbreaking.
> To those, such as Mr. Nolan, who belittle Steve’s
> achievements because he didn’t solve world hunger,
> invent a vaccine, or fight for civil rights
Mr. Nolan is an ass. Solving world hunger, inventing vaccines, and fighting for civil rights are 3 uses for Apple products.
> Heaven
> God
Mr. Jobs was a Buddhist. There is no Heaven and no God in Buddhism. It’s profoundly disrespectful to convert him after death, when he can no longer say no. Unfortunately, this is commonly done to famous atheists.
Maybe the cartoonist for The New Yorker meant well, maybe he didn’t, but that cover hit me like a punch in the gut. I hope Mr. Jobs’ family doesn’t see it.
Do Buddhists go to heaven? I don’t think they believe in any.
They are not suppose to believe in a personal God either.
Rest In Peace is a christian term for waiting for judgement day in a box
buried 6 feet underground.
Both are such stupid and ugly concepts.
Thanks for your thoughtful piece.
It might be worthy of a psychology thesis to find out why Apple has always elicited so much positive and negative reactions. Why do Porsche cars not provoke similar responses? It is sometimes unbelievable what kind of hateful comments are published in forums.
Being a longtime mostly very happy user of Apple products I of course understand the positive feedback. But some of the hateful ramblings are just beyond me. I like reading a German tech website (heise.de), and the news item there of Steve Job’s death led to many comments that forum editors had to delete.
Jean-Louis
I’ve always suspected that the decision to go with NeXT instead of BeOS had tha makings of an extraordinary story of which we know little. I have to believe Steve’s pitch must have been the most impassioned of his career. Perhaps there’ll be more in the upcoming biography.
Have you ever written about it?
@ Hamranhansenhansen and @rd: No disrespect for Buddhism. I know Steve used to go to Kannon Do, a Mountain View Zendo, but stopped a while ago, no reason known, too much publicity, perhaps. I started going there a few years ago and saw people remembered Steve fondly. For me Buddhism is a practice, not a religion.
Also, in recent years, I don’t recall Steve mentioning any affiliation.
Lastly, as stated at the beginning of the piece, my references to Heaven were humoristic, metaphoric, not to be taken literaly.
A wonderful, considered tribute, JLG, actually a tribute to you both.
I’ve a feeling that the last thing Steve Jobs coveted was an outpouring of sympathy. He wanted more time with his family, for others to improve the world and for his ethic to continue at Apple. The naysayers miss the point and its their loss. There is much to learn, however, from his life although he didn’t want to act as a role model, rather an example of what you can do yourself. Don’t be try to be Steve Jobs, have confidence in yourself.
Steve Jobs was the user’s advocate. When it seemed like nobody else cared what silly hoops we had to jump through to accomplish our daily computing tasks, Steve cared. He cared more than most of us knew was possible. People who say he simply packaged others’ ideas and marked up the price have no idea what they’re talking about.
And for what it’s worth, Mr. Gassée, I feel like Be had the Apple spirit and I credit you for that. As a teenager in the 1990s, I lusted after BeOS. It’s still a beautiful piece of technology and art.
I’m an apple computer addict, sort of, my love affair started with an apple II.
Steve Jobs offered us the best computing experience ever. And the worst knowledge sharing model ever: one where the gate opens the moment you show your money.
He was the guy who could have rewritten, at least a bit, this business rule. He chose not to. I am still wondering why. And my question will remain definitely unanswered.
Wonderful article. Thanks JLG.
Secondary to that: I am an agnostic/atheist who very much enjoys Buddhist philosophy. I don’t find any of the heaven references, or St Peter cartoon to be at all disrespectful. The actions are all out of respect and kindness.
Lastly, regarding how Steve might have reacted to all of this public mourning, I would respectfully quote to him some Goethe: “If I love you, what business is it of yours?”
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